Tim Grover’s Relentless has a lot of points to ponder. Thought leaders say there is never a Problem, but only a Situation or an issue that has to be addressed. A Situation/ Event plus Response is equal to the Outcome/ Results. If I am not convinced about the Results I get in Work or Life, I am at liberty to change or alter the Response to the Event till I get the Outcome. Right? Though sounds easy, implementation is tricky.
Our Instincts are not capable of recognizing anything Positive or Negative. Nor does our Thinking because of Repetitive Patterns. It is only your Action that determines. Plunge into it by responding through your actions.
But do you have enough confidence to accept when you have screwed up. Own it if you did it and stand by it. Not just mistakes. But decisions and choices too. That is your Reputation.
People will respect you for it. I do it and want many more situations likewise. Are you ready?
Tag: instincts
Break the Rules. Trust your Instincts and Act.
My experiential life has demonstrated that there is never a problem, only situations, and issues that must be addressed and resolved.
I am more intuitive; my instincts do not recognize the positive or negative of any situation or person—everything I consider as a situation, a response, and an outcome. More than thinking, I prefer using actions to achieve results.
I counsel my friends and clients to avoid panicking and complaining. ” Clean up a problem and make it work. And adjust situations to yourself rather than adjusting yourself to the situation.” Keep reminding yourself not to get jammed in one plan. Improvise and follow what feels right to you. Your decisions do not require thousands of your fans to back them up. Learn to Live with the outcome. Remember, ” Your preparations and your instincts are your safety net.”
Try it out. It works. It works for me.