I was brought up and tutored in an environment where living and adjusting for others than for myself was a priority and necessity. My roles were pre-determined. What I did, What I ate, What I thought, with whom I interacted etc. I was told that the path given by my family was test-driven and was not risk-prone as long as I took future-wise decisions, once away from my parents to live with my Husband. All is well despite the ups and downs. We live a life of serenity and fulfillment.
The present age of enlightenment and Individual freedom has ensured that every individual can pursue and choose his/her happiness and is entitled to enjoy his life.
But instead of being happy, we are witnessing high levels of stress, isolation, mental turmoil, depression, loneliness, addiction, and suicide. broken families, etc
Does freedom have its price to pay? Could be, could not be.
By indulging in all urges, arising within each, every person traps himself/ herself in short-term outcomes in relationships, health, harmony, etc., seeking instant results and gratification. Patience, Inner discipline, compassion, tolerance, caring, and forgiveness can go a long way toward a happier self.
Consciously prevent the state of “Unconscious Stagnation.”
Churchill said, “ The power of man has grown in every sphere except over himself.”
Let it not become true.
